I beg that you please send all positive thoughts, energies, prayers, whatever you have this way to my family and I. I’m in Charlotte, NC, tonight and will be in Newberry, SC in the morning.
Alec, my oldest son, committed suicide on Monday, March 1st, 2010.
I just want to ask that you keep all of us in your thoughts, especially Alec’s younger brother, Zachary. This isn’t a particularly easy time for any of us. But it’ll be fine. Alec was such a beautiful soul and I’m sure that there is sense in this somewhere. I know there is.
I’ve been lucky to have two beautiful boys in my life. I’ve been so lucky. I’m grateful for all of the lives Alec touched because I know what an impact he had. He and his brother both are amazing individuals. Just keep us in your thoughts. Please.
I know that some of you have photos of Alec from old parties and whatnot (South Beach, Lexington, etc..). If you could email me any copies of any photos you may have, I would appreciate it. scott@ipanemic.com
I left my cellphone charger on the beach. Those of you who know my parents can reach me through them. Email, I hope to have back tomorrow.
I have no words other than I hold you and your family in the Light.
Oh my God, Scott. That is truly shocking news. I am so so, so sorry. Words are not enough, but please know that my deepest thoughts, prayers and sympathies are with you and your family right now. If there is anything at all that I can do, do not hesitate.
Much love to you.
L.
That’s horribl e news,Scott. Best to you and the family in this time of darkness and sorrow, and strength and resolve to endure and continue. I’m very sorry.
My deepest sympathies; positive thoughts to you and Zack.
Scott, I am so sorry. Although we don’t know each other, I feel as if I’ve come to know a bit about you and your sons through your blog. It’s apparent that you are a proud father who feels a tremendous amount of love and respect for your kids–and vice versa. My sympathies go out to you and your entire family. You are in my thoughts.
Jen
Oh Scott, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. If you ever need someone to talk to, please do not hesitate to ask for help. Also keep an eye out on your younger son and his state of mind. Grief counselors and therapy are a wonderful tool that is not used enough.
Our hearts are broken for you. We love you and are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. We are always here for you.
I’m sending all my best wishes to you and your family during this very difficult time. I’m very, very sorry to hear about your loss.
This is my memory of Alec: That party you had at your house in the fall and pretty much everyone was there- all of us writers and poet-bloggers and photographers and there was Alec, helping with food and talking to people and pretty much just being. It struck me how chill he was, how just completely devoid of pretension or demand or boredom– anything I would expect from a kid at a party with a bunch of half-drunk artist types. Know that heaven just got a little bit cooler. Scott, I am thinking of you and sending whatever energy I can muster your way.
XoXo
I will keep you and your family in my prayers…
unbearable experience- Scott, I feel so much for you all- this abrupt change in course. I hope the wide net you’ve cast to absorb love and support fills to capacity and over flows. I hope Zach feels some measure of this as he processes his brother’s absence, and that the gulf left from what was clearly a passionate and sensitive soul will be filled again one day with the light of his memory. Been thinking of you all all day.. Alec looked very much like a person I’d like to have known.. that all those who had the opportunity to be his friend were blessed for it. He clearly was very loved- may he take that into his next way and May you some day sooner than later feel peace.
Scott,
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Stay strong for those around you, but make sure you’ve got someone to talk to too.
Rob.
So, so, so sorry for your loss.
I was sorry to read this. My deepest condolences for you and your family, Scott.
I am so sorry for your loss. I can’t even begin to understand what you are going through….but I send strength your way….I sensed your gentle soul.
I am so very sorry. I will be thinking of you and your family, Scott, in the days ahead. Stick close to those you love. You’ll be needing each other.
Let your love flow outward through the universe,
To its height, its depth, its broad extent,
A limitless love, without hatred or enmity.
Then as you stand or walk,
Sit or lie down,
As long as you are awake,
Strive for this with a one-pointed mind;
Your life will bring heaven to earth.
-Sutta Nipata-
All our love for you, Zach, family, friends.
For Alec i dedicate this poem.
Love you Scotty…